As a person that loves to sit in observation of my surroundings, I must say daily I am saddened to see how Desperate many of us as women have made ourselves seem. Why are we making such a mockery out of ourselves losing all senses the minute an Attractive man is seen? Vast amounts of the comments seen ooze’s Desperation. What are we really teaching our young girls, especially when some of us have seemingly thrown morals out the door? Yes, I understand the whole equality thing, and whatever men do so can we. One thing I will NEVER change is my stance when it comes to my refusal of chasing after a man, it is for him to pursue me Not the other way around. These are lessons that shall be passed on to my daughter. The only being my daughter and I shall chase after is God Almighty, she also has my blessings to Chase after her dreams, to Chase down Education. She will definitely be urged to chase Negative people out of her life with a permanent Eviction Notice, which once issued has no chance of being restored.
If we as women complain about the behavior of these men whether they be young or old, then Why The Junk are we Now displaying those same animalistic attitude of which we were so vocal about not hiding, due our disdain for their caveman arousals. Sweet Mercy, can we go back to our Grandmother’s and Great Grandmother’s days wherein the women were poised, and refined for they carried and held themselves to high moral standards? These standards Commanded that they are dealt with and looked upon with the utmost Respect. I am not saying you should act Stuffy, what I’m saying is; let’s stop tarnishing our images whereby we are being perceived by others as possessing a harlot type mentality, then having the nerve to be offended when men are calling us out of our names. If you act like a female dog, then that’s how you are going to be treated. How can you expect to be seen as a 5 star 3-course meal, when you’re busy parading yourself as a cheap boxed lunch? The manner you’ve showcased yourself to be seen as is a quick fix to soothe their itch. Yes, there’s no doubt that there are some very attractive men which many of you might be friends with, as I too have seen them or have them as friends.
HOWEVER, with No disrespect intended, Not one of them would I be willing to release my inhibitions for. Yes, they’re Attractive, but guess what, last time I checked there were no horns growing out of my forehead wherein I needed to force any man to take notice of me because my appearance and intellect didn’t seem sufficient to bring me recognition. The way in which I now speak of myself it’s not me being conceited, it’s merely me Standing Upright In MY Confidence as I am Loving me, and have Learned to see myself as God sees me. It has opened me up to see my Value for No longer can I be robbed of my Worth. Now ladies and men alike, if you like a post and there is something in the message you love, then comment on it instead of making requests of what you would like to have done, or comments of how fine the individual is. You making the most provocative or endearing comments isn’t going to make anyone’s head turn if they weren’t themselves actively looking. He knows he looks good and that’s why he’s profiling in his pic. We don’t need to demean ourselves by acting out or speaking in ways that do not highlight us in a positive manner. So, why do all that foolishness just to gain some man’s attention, and if you find yourself working overtime to be seen then stop, especially if you were never hired for the job, because no matter how yuh kiss up kiss up him nah tek yuh nuh whey, him nuh waan yuh…(Translation no matter how much kissing up you do, he does not want you, nor does he desire to take you anywhere).
Let us be true role models for our daughter’s. We can’t teach them if we’re busy chasing every man that flashes a smile. Stop competing with your daughter it’s time to guide her into her future. Once again put the brakes on, some of you are doing too much. By the way, that foolishness that I see wherein comments such as “put me in bondage already, or you can arrest me any day, I will be your prisoner” LADIES REALLY! REALLY, listen one day you might make that comment to the wrong person who will fulfill that request and TRUST ME YOU WON’T LIKE IT. It is animals that are put in bondage and even their lives are being given more value than ours. Please let us Stop Allowing others to place labels on us. We’re Worth the Chase, therefore, STOP doing the chasing. #SoulEmpowerer Love & Blessings
None of my words used in place of certain terms are for the purposes of being offensive, I don’t use profanity henceforth I communicate differently in the expressing of myself.