Some like to present themselves as a “God sent” yet they come with a Hell scent”. Yes, God will send people to us, Not necessarily to say that is whom we Ought to be with, but rather to Let Us Appreciate What We’re already in Possession of! I would never disagree with the reality that God will send people to us in order to assist us with the removing of ourselves from places we should have never been, or to help with the breaking of a cycle that shouldn’t have led to the exchanging of vows. However, it doesn’t mean the messenger is Necessarily going to be the man/woman that is going to become your future. They might just simply be the messenger and Nothing more. There are times that we so desperately want to experience Love, and Life in ways we have not known but have only heard of, wherein, we start creating a storyline in our heads because of the heart longing for what it’s never had. What’s unfortunate is your thinking that the next person is the one sent to give you what you have wished for, but then you find out the grass wasn’t as green as you thought it would have been. For everything you do or say, you’re judged!
If you speak Negatively you don’t have self-love, and if you speak Positively you’re being accepting of mistreatment. Still you’re being judged. Everyone wants to be a Life coach or a Relationship Expert, yet they too are still on the prowl searching out love. I don’t profess to have all the Answers, I don’t profess to be Perfect, I don’t profess that Life is always filled with Sunshine, but one thing I Do Know is that anyone who walks around with a Holier than Thou mentality, he or she certainly is Not one to walk into your future with, nor is it worth you uprooting yourself from what you know. You must be willing to silence the heart so that you can hear the commonsense reasoning of the mind. Think about it, and don’t be afraid to ask the question: “would God really subject you to that”? Sometimes the hardest questions to ask are the ones that will give us that slap in the face response which we have dodged consistently. When we enter into a relationship we are looking for an equal Partnership, not a Dictatorship. We already have parents who are very forthcoming with their scoldings, therefore, you don’t need one who have affixed themselves as ruler over your mind, opinions, and emotions.